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I'm at my limit ( long vent)

Shari 86Shari 86 member
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I need to vent somewhere and if I were to actually say this out loud I would feel guilty. 

I am at my wedding limit. I have been trying to get married since 2009. This is my 6th yes 6th attempt. I have now fully planned 5 weddings. Well working on the 5th one. This is the 4th one in this year alone. First we were suppose to be wed on New Years Eve. 7 months to the day and after everything was planned ALL of the vendors pulled out. That was fine after all it was only my second time planning at this point. So We prceeded to plan a wedding in Jamacia. All was done for that wedding Save the dates out then our travel agent called to tell us she had booked us in for the week after the wedding was planned for. AND the resort couldn't fit us in the next week and there were no rooms available for the week I had planned. So after embarrasement 3, I went on to plan my Dominican Wedding. A week ago MIL got sick and I had to cancel.  

I knew what I had to do. It is her right to be able to see her child get married especially given her situation. I am just devistated that this has happened again.

 I am tired of looking at invitations. I'm at the point that I Hate anything I see. I just finished making 110  home reception invites adorned with starfishes that are useless. My wedding is in Northern Canada, a beach theme is laughable. Especially in my area. A caribou  or a mosquito might work better. 

I want to be excited about this wedding but I am just at my cap now. Ugh....
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  • denverbride12denverbride12 member
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    Oh I feel you too girl. This is the third time we have planned a wedding and things have gone wrong for similar reasons (last time we planned it, his mom unexpectedly passed away three weeks before the wedding date).  I bought wedding insurance this time on the thought that nothing can go wrong.  ha, what was I thinking?!  I had half my vendors and my minister pull out just after New Year's for our May 2012 wedding.  I basically had to start over.  Deep breath.  It is going to be all okay.  You WILL marry the man you love.  I think you can do a lot of fun beach things indoors --- I went to a wedding in Montreal where the whole floor of the reception room was covered in sand (don;t ask me how they did it but they did) and the decor and lighting was all beach theme.  The DJ played Jamaican music, there was a steel drum band and the DJ handed out were beach balls and sand pails and shovels.  We took off our shoes, forgot the snowing out side and danced our butts off! Do what make your heart sing.  No matter what, it is your day!
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  • susanjd9susanjd9
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    Damn just elope already lol. I would go nuts if that happened to me so many times. I give you a lot of credit.
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  • comeongetdowncomeongetdown member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_im-at-my-limit-long-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:45d429d7-a452-414f-8f30-f1be077268b8Post:c0c61bb7-9a3f-4999-a438-d660f031c18d">Re: I'm at my limit ( long vent)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Damn<strong> just elope already lol</strong>. I would go nuts if that happened to me so many times. I give you a lot of credit.
    Posted by susanjd9[/QUOTE]

    no kidding!  you've been through so much!  maybe you can have a backyard wedding at a friend/relative's house in town just to finally be able to get married?
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  • bpphoto785bpphoto785 member
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    Your frustration is completely and totally understandable!! Good for you for committing to marrying your FI six times! I think it really shows how much you love him!! Knottie vibes everything works out this time!!

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_im-at-my-limit-long-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:45d429d7-a452-414f-8f30-f1be077268b8Post:ce6f0ad0-0186-4db7-b561-9652dc814d89">Re: I'm at my limit ( long vent)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Your frustration is completely and totally understandable!! Good for you for committing to marrying your FI six times! I think it really shows how much you love him!! Knottie vibes everything works out this time!!
    Posted by bpphoto785[/QUOTE]

    <div>I agree with this!</div>
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