Have no clue what to do!!! Please help!! Confused!! ARGH!

Re: Have no clue what to do!!! Please help!! Confused!! ARGH!

• Butter Cookie member

  

  February 2011 edited December 2011

  I'm very sorry for the past you've had. Truly, I am, and I'm glad you made it out alive and stronger on the other side.
  
  I won't apologize, however, for the snarky comment because whether you realize it or not your entire first post was obnoxious and attention seeking. This post, now, is attention-seeking. It would be great if, for the tragedies and heartbreak we experience in life - we would be repayed in kindness and joy but the world simply doesn't work that way.
  
  Good luck with your apparently extravagant wedding with [name drop here] wedding dress designer and [name drop and price drop here] cake flown in from [somewhere distant.] Hopefully your guests don't mind sharing your wedding and reception with the public eye, and nobody attempts to make you out into something you arent. I hope your future is much healthier and happier than your past.
  

  

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• Butter Cookie member

  

  February 2011 edited December 2011

  And one more thing - I am shocked at your timeline of events. I cannot imagine going through something so traumatic and feeling prepared to trust someone with my heart, my body, and my life so quickly. In 2009 you were dealing with an evil ex who tried to kill you and in 2011 (early 2011 at that) you're knee-deep in planning with someone else. I hope you've sought counseling for what you went through and had a good, long, real look at yourself; what you need to make you happy, how to know that you're entrusting the right person with your love, your life, and your future, how to know that you're healed to a place that you can be open enough and giving enough to your partner. I do hope you've searched your soul and given yourself enough time to heal after what you went through, and not just rushing on to put the past behind you.

  

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• **O-Face** member

  

  February 2011 edited December 2011

  love addict, anyone?

  

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• besidethem member

  

  February 2011 edited December 2011

  There are a lot of ignorant people out there but a few people bring up valid points that I wouldn't have thought of either.  Honestly, I think the magazine thing is not your style but like everything you consider all options LMFAO and you know that B would be game if you wanted it.  If you are this hesitant about it then don't bother.  

  
  

  
  

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