I been doing some research on the invitation wording but I'm getting myself confused now but here's my situation. I'm catholic but my fiance is not (he has never been baptized either) and we're getting married in a catholic cathedral. We have decided that we're not having a mass so I know not to include "at the nuptial mass" on invites but can I still include "in the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony"? I want to order my invitations soon but wanted to make sure I word it correctly. Thanks!