We are fortunate to have family and friends all over the country, and while my parents will be hosting an engagement for us where we live (Los Angeles), our good friend offered to throw us one in New York so that we could celebrate with friends and family in the northeast. I am struggling with how to word the invitation so that people know they are welcome to attend either, but need not attend both (and do not feel pressured to attend any if they live in a different part of the country altogether!). My idea was to structure the invite as an announcement, i.e. "Announcing the Engagement of __ & ___" and then add "Please join us for a party in their honor," then list the two parties below. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!