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You can't.It sounds cute in theory but if any guest is like me, I'd feel like I had to go out and buy a hat just to wear to the shower.Instead, incorporate customs that YOU can do. Add food customs but not customs that require your guests to do things. Because that is something that the English would not find appropriate.