I am part of a large family marrying into another large family. Two weekends ago was my best friends bridal shower and bachelorette party. I was so busy I realized I never went to my fiances cousins bridal shower. I don't even know if I responded to the invite! His cousin and I aren't close, but we are the same age and graduated together....and we're skipping their wedding to be IN our friends wedding..Is there any way to fix this situation so his family won't hate me?