Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.

[Deleted User] · March 2012

I don't understand what was offensive or why it was a reason for leaving. What were you trying to say, OP? Your post wasn't very clear.

khafner2 · March 2012

I think it's unfair to bring up a hot topic and attack people than get offended when they defend themselves or correct you. Good luck to you. But the drama is not appreciated.

Ash61612 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:779c1808-5593-4c37-91fd-9f3bef7653b9">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : <strong>Your post was confusing. No one was trying to make you feel bad.... your post just came across offensive, just like your post a few months ago saying you were leaving the board because everyone is snarky.... IMHO, you are very opinated with everyone elses posts, but if anyone disagrees with you, you take it personally and *leave*</strong>
Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

agree, I had to read and re-read the post a couple times. no one was trying to be mean/rude or make you feel bad. We are all honest on this board and I don't understand why you get so upset if someone disagrees with you. we are all adults and have certain viewpoints about topics and so what if we don't agree with you? no need to get your panties all in a twist

littleluckypenny · March 2012

Is it just me, or has the threat of leaving come up on more than one occasion?

No one is attacking you, just stating their opinions and what they believe is acceptable/not acceptable. No need to get upset.

Kfudge0714 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:019fdf5c-468d-4ccc-936a-23491cb8152f">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]Ive heard of a Jack & Jill as a shower with both the bride and groom present. But i have never heard of a party like chelsea mentioned, thats crazy! yeah definite etiquette faux pas
Posted by clafond15[/QUOTE]

this is also what I thought a Jack & Jill was. My aunt had what we called a "Jack & Jill" and it was a co-ed bridal shower.

Skittles612 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:e1b795da-2a4d-47f4-8be4-10e589c2a814">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]I think it's unfair to bring up a hot topic and attack people than get offended when they defend themselves or correct you. Good luck to you. But the drama is not appreciated.
Posted by khafner2[/QUOTE]

AGREED!! Bonnie, I feel that you are attacking this board with some of the comments you posted and then became upset that we defended ourselves. You volunteered for our opinion when you posted on this board.

I hope that in the future, we will better understand what you are asking of us and be more helpful with responses. But if you want us to be more polite and understand I feel you also need to put effort forth to not attack us and ask your question more clearly. Sorry that this thread didn't go the way that you had hoped and that your get better answers with future questions.

ncd5015 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:cbbabb1c-a8c8-48a7-8e07-6a5b520a4b97">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Is it just me, or has the threat of leaving come up on more than one occasion?</strong> No one is attacking you, just stating their opinions and what they believe is acceptable/not acceptable. No need to get upset.
Posted by littleluckypenny[/QUOTE]

It's not just you, it has come up before.
I don't think anyone's attacked anyone. And running away is never a solution. It's an internet forum, if you can't take opposing opinions here, I can't imagine how opposing opinions are taken in real life.

Ash61612 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:cbbabb1c-a8c8-48a7-8e07-6a5b520a4b97">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Is it just me, or has the threat of leaving come up on more than one occasion?</strong> No one is attacking you, just stating their opinions and what they believe is acceptable/not acceptable. No need to get upset.
Posted by littleluckypenny[/QUOTE]

no, this has come up several times in the past.

michellep1 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:dd22d6bb-70ba-4df4-a6a5-375e8180e137">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : And you've already <strong>GBCKed</strong> before and come back....so sorry if we're used to you just threatening this to create unnecessary drama.
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

What's GBCKed mean?

I think a lot of the initial understanding of your post has to do with the numerous grammar/syntax errors. Perhaps a proofread would help clarify your message in the future?

I have to agree with all the PPs here. People come here for advice and you can't pick and choose which advice to take, or get angry with those that are being truthful. When I asked what people thought about giving to charity instead of favors I was given honest, tactful answers that it wasn't the best idea and I didn't throw a fit & threaten to leave. If you're mature enough to get married you should be mature enough to handle honest advice when you ask for it.

diamondx423 · March 2012

this thread is just comical now.

midgetthemighty · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:c5164ad2-4468-4af0-815f-54f18902b222">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]this thread is just comical now.
Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

Sad, but true.

Nindakay · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:732bc8d8-e284-40ea-a1e1-57c0447f388e">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : I agree with Chelsea on this one. This is the second time I've read that your leaving. You can't take everything people say personally. Someone <strong>called me ignorant once and it didn't cause me to leave.</strong> We are here to give and get advice from one another, we aren't going to agree with everything that everyone does all the time.
Posted by Kfudge0714[/QUOTE]

I have felt like people were blasting me on other posts re: questions about my wedding. I was trying to be creative, and think of some unique things to do at my reception - granted, they were bad ideas (which I do not want to re-hash) and had my feelings hurt. But I just try to remember two things.

1. This is THE INTERNET. The way we say things can be easily mis-interpreted, because a lot of our communication is non-verbal.

2. I try hard to treat other people. online or in person, the way I want to be treated. I try to make my answers as tactful and diplomatic as possible. BUT not everyone is like that. If we were all like that, we would all be hippies and nothing would ever get done. LOL

Sooooo.....if someone says something that hurts your feelings, take it with a grain of salt and move on. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try to explain yourself, we just may not get it. It's the nature of the beast, so to speak.

And why tell us you are leaving? That's like un-friending a person on facebook. Ooooooh.....scary!! And then telling us you are going to stalk us? LOL That's just kina creepy.

midgetthemighty · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:91a3150e-962d-484c-bcea-479ce2381a8c">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : <strong>What's GBCKed mean?</strong> I think a lot of the initial understanding of your post has to do with the numerous grammar/syntax errors. Perhaps a proofread would help clarify your message in the future? I have to agree with all the PPs here. People come here for advice and you can't pick and choose which advice to take, or get angry with those that are being truthful. <strong> When I asked what people thought about giving to charity instead of favors I was given honest, tactful answers that it wasn't the best idea </strong>and I didn't throw a fit & threaten to leave. If you're mature enough to get married you should be mature enough to handle honest advice when you ask for it.
Posted by michellep1[/QUOTE]

Goodbye Cruel Knot!

FWIW, I hope I was around to stick up for your idea of doing that kind of favor. We are and if someone has a problem with us giving money to the ACS, they can jst get over it. Almost everyone there is super involved with that organization though, so I don't forsee any problems. I do think it's one of those "know your crowd" things though.

kelsey+brandon · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:91a3150e-962d-484c-bcea-479ce2381a8c">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : <strong>What's GBCKed mean?</strong> I think a lot of the initial understanding of your post has to do with the numerous grammar/syntax errors. Perhaps a proofread would help clarify your message in the future? I have to agree with all the PPs here. People come here for advice and you can't pick and choose which advice to take, or get angry with those that are being truthful. When I asked what people thought about giving to charity instead of favors I was given honest, tactful answers that it wasn't the best idea and I didn't throw a fit & threaten to leave. If you're mature enough to get married you should be mature enough to handle honest advice when you ask for it.
Posted by michellep1[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div><span style="color:#000000;font-family:arial;line-height:normal;text-align:-webkit-auto;font-size:small;">"Good Bye Cruel Knot" I don't know if it's an old term and people don't use it anymore, but a million years ago when I was lurking, they had an issue with this one girl on E doing it all the time. </span><div style="color:#000000;font-family:arial;line-height:normal;text-align:-webkit-auto;font-size:small;">
</div><div style="color:#000000;font-family:arial;line-height:normal;text-align:-webkit-auto;font-size:small;">I just think it's ridiculous to be all about etiquette, but ignore a huge etiquette no-no, just because it's something you wanted to do. If it was common in my area to have a dollar dance, I still wouldn't do it even if it was "expected." You either care about etiquette or you don't...there isn't really an in between option. You can't be a vegetarian, but still eat meat on Sundays.</div><div style="color:#000000;font-family:arial;line-height:normal;text-align:-webkit-auto;font-size:small;">
</div><div style="color:#000000;font-family:arial;line-height:normal;text-align:-webkit-auto;font-size:small;">Honestly, I'm just tired of the drama. You freak out on us and leave. Then come back. Then say you're not posting because someone is "stalking" your wedding. Then you decide it's okay to start posting all the time about everything. Then you freak out and say you're leaving again. I'm sure you'll get over it and yourself and be back before your wedding.</div>
</div>

Nindakay · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:56eb0037-f22f-473b-a6b8-195c6b5c29b8">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]Wow. I think this is is getting out of hand. Who offended who? I feel that this group of ladies is AMAZING and way less likely to point out things just to be snarky. I have never felt offended by anyone and even realized that my POV may have been a little off base b/c someone mentioned it, in a nice way. In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Totally get what you're saying here Meaghan, but actually, according to the dictionary: etiquette: conventional requirements as to social behavior; proprieties of conduct as established in any class or community or for any occasion. There are some things that are rude no matter where you are, but other things that are acceptable in some areas but not others. I think that if your actions do not offend the people involved, then you can "breach etiquette" so long as its not completely out of control. Bonnie, if you put it out there on an internet social board, you're asking to get opinions, and those opinions come from all over the place and from people in all different social circuls and circumstances. Its hard to not feel a little offended when someone tells you what you're doing is rude, but its people being honest and giving advice. At the end of the day its your wedding and your decision to make, and no one is forcing you to listen; no one will come arrest you if you don't follow their suggestions.<strong> I think friends can disagree and still be friends.
</strong>Posted by MiksChick23[/QUOTE]

Wait? What?! Are you sure about that, Miks?<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-innocent.gif" border="0" alt="Innocent" title="Innocent" />

diamondx423 · March 2012

Honestly, I feel bad for Bonnie from the details of her life that she shared. I feel like people in her life aren't always the easiest to deal with and sometimes its better to melt down somewhere that its "safe".

I, however, have my melt downs on FI because I know he'll love me no matter what. Having a rant on the internet for everyone to see (and comment) isn't the best plan because even after you want the convo to end its still going on (unless MM stops it, which I hope she doesn't do).

midgetthemighty · March 2012

They still use it Kelsey, because sadly, people still do it.

Zimsgirl · March 2012

BAHAHA diamond I don't even remember calling you a brat haha. But I was a total b!tch sometimes and needed to be put in line. And I lurve you too for introducing me to rue la la This thread was great entertainment

Nindakay · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:c5164ad2-4468-4af0-815f-54f18902b222">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]this thread is just comical now.
Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

Agree!! I'm bored at work, and this is keeping me highly amused!

ncd5015 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:6d24d06c-f6f4-4654-a99c-90b8b3d92d29">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Goodbye Cruel Knot! FWIW, I hope I was around to stick up for your idea of doing that kind of favor. We are and if someone has a problem with us <strong>giving money to the ACS</strong>, they can jst get over it. Almost everyone there is super involved with that organization though, so I don't forsee any problems. I do think it's one of those "know your crowd" things though.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

Midge - I think we'd have a kick ass Relay for Life or Strides fund-raising team. I love how involved you are with ACS

midgetthemighty · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:0eaef8c9-cdac-42d7-b438-17da9632a050">Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Midge - I think we'd have a kick ass Relay for Life or Strides fund-raising team. I love how involved you are with ACS
Posted by ncd5015[/QUOTE]

Thank you! I think we would too, if only we were closer!

peachykeen26 · March 2012

Okay okay. I will say, I have eaten up, spit out, stepped on, then spit on again. But, I realized what I was doing wrong. Hahaha I also admit to posting something stupid and then not going back and reading it after the first several spitfire replys. Your OP didn't really make sense to me at all. I am extremely confuse by it and I will be sad to see you go again. I took a break from TK and I got a lot done with my life. Maybe that would be good for you too. Also, please don't turn into a stalker that's just creepy and makes me not want to post things like pictures on here frankly.

peachykeen26 · March 2012

In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.:this thread is just comical now.Posted by diamondx423Agree!!nbsp; I'm bored at work, and this is keeping me highly amused! Let's all get offended and call each other bad names.nbsp; And threaten to leave. Posted by Nindakay[/QUOTE]

Bah hahaha. I almost went along with this, but didn't want to offend anyone. Lol

Rethany · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:a674fa5b-83f0-49ff-8a50-1ba515c4e9ae">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]BAHAHA diamond I don't even remember calling you a brat haha. But I was a total b!tch sometimes and needed to be put in line. And I lurve you too for introducing me to rue la la This thread was great entertainment
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

You don't remember calling her a brat because you didn't. :) haha. She called you a brat.

I'm so pissed I was busy at work and couldn't chime into this thread on time.

diamondx423 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:bc3133ec-5010-4486-b85e-562d2d1f175a">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : <strong>You don't remember calling her a brat because you didn't. :) haha. She called you a brat</strong>. I'm so pissed I was busy at work and couldn't chime into this thread on time.
Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]

Yeah, if she called me a brat I'd throw down!

This thread blew up fast, then went on FB and exploded even more.

midgetthemighty · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:b537cf1c-59a0-4a9e-9a50-18611ec38013">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Yeah, if she called me a brat I'd throw down! This thread blew up fast, <strong>then went on FB and exploded even more.
</strong>Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

Is it still there?

Kfudge0714 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:79c08bb3-d8b5-4093-bb35-3adaa941294f">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Is it still there?
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

oh it is and still going!

Elizabeth80 · March 2012

This!!!

And to OP..My thought is if you want to leave, then leave. I feel like this was all done to bring more attention and drama to an otherwise chill and fun wedding board. With over 2k in posts I'm assuming this isn't the first board you've pulled this with. Internet forums were not made to coddle. I've been offended but then reality check..who cares! It might be time to take a break anyway and concentrate on the things that matter, your wedding and your FI.

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:bc3133ec-5010-4486-b85e-562d2d1f175a">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : You don't remember calling her a brat because you didn't. :) haha. She called you a brat. I'm so pissed <strong>I was busy at work and couldn't chime into this thread on time.
</strong>Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]

kelsey+brandon · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_etiquette-a-bit-of-a-rant-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:010f74d9-8858-4d36-970e-e438cad590a9Post:79c08bb3-d8b5-4093-bb35-3adaa941294f">Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Etiquette? A bit of a rant, long. : Is it still there?
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

<div>Now we're just talking about the closest red thing to me....</div>

janeash · March 2012

I can't believe I missed this thread until now! Highly entertaining, ladies!!

I can't imagine what the nest boards must be like full of pregnant, hormonal women if this is what happens here!!! In all seriousness, I love getting everyone's opinions straight. If you ask for them, make sure you are able to take what comes at you. If you don't like it, get over it....you asked for it!!!

Personally, I see both points of view with a lot of the etiquette on this board...some of it I follow, and some of it I just chose not to follow because it is my wedding, and I will do what I want!!! If my guests don't like it, they don't have to come to my wedding!

Some people just thrive on the drama, I think......

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