ok so my sister and i are really close and i love her but i don't really want to ask her to be a bm. it sounds kinda mean but ever since she had her baby she hasn't lost any of her baby weight and i dont know if i want her to be in my wp. my mom is really pushing me to ask her but i feel like i have so many other friends who will be better in the bm dresses. so at this point i dont really know what to do, maybe i could tell her to loose some weight so she wouldlook better in the dress? other wise i would just rather not ask her to be a bm