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mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm

ok so my sister and i are really close and i love her but i don't really want to ask her to be a bm.  it sounds kinda mean but ever since she had her baby she hasn't lost any of her baby weight and i dont know if i want her to be in my wp.  my mom is really pushing me to ask her but i feel like i have so many other friends who will be better in the bm dresses.  so at this point i dont really know what to do, maybe i could tell her to loose some weight so she wouldlook better in the dress?  other wise i would just rather not ask her to be a bm
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Re: mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_mom-wnats-ask-sister-bm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:357ebd15-43e3-46a3-a7ba-f5f274fe8ea7Post:34c500c1-ca3d-4b9c-9240-a84e18b05021">mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm</a>:
    [QUOTE]ok so my sister and i are really close and i love her but i don't really want to ask her to be a bm.  it sounds kinda mean but ever since she had her baby she hasn't lost any of her baby weight and i dont know if i want her to be in my wp.  my mom is really pushing me to ask her but i feel like i have so many other friends who will be better in the bm dresses.  so at this point i dont really know what to do, maybe i could tell her to loose some weight so she wouldlook better in the dress?  other wise i would just rather not ask her to be a bm
    Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]

    Please.  This isn't even good MUD.
  • wats MUD?
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  • Please tell me that there is no one this self centered!
  • i am trying to think of my sister too because what if she is too embarrassed!  i'd would be embarrassed if i was still fat from having a baby!


  • Wow. There are. no. words.
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  • MAKE HER DIET!

    Some people just don't get that it's YOUR DAY and it's their obligation to look their best!!

    You have two years until your wedding.  I bet she can be a mere twig by the BIG DAY!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_mom-wnats-ask-sister-bm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:357ebd15-43e3-46a3-a7ba-f5f274fe8ea7Post:34c500c1-ca3d-4b9c-9240-a84e18b05021">mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm</a>:
    [QUOTE]ok so my sister and i are really close and i love her but i don't really want to ask her to be a bm.  it sounds kinda mean but ever since she had her baby she hasn't lost any of her baby weight and i dont know if i want her to be in my wp.  my mom is really pushing me to ask her but i feel like i have so many other friends who will be better in the bm dresses.  so at this point i dont really know what to do, maybe i could tell her to loose some weight so she wouldlook better in the dress?  other wise i would just rather not ask her to be a bm
    Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]
  •  DAMN BABIES RUIN EVERYTHING!




    whaaaaah
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    I didn't think it possible, but yes, you are that SHALLOW.  
  • OOT  - she's a troll from SB.  Don't waste your breath.  Check out her other posts. 
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  • well i asked her to diet before but it doesnt even seem like she cares.  she proabbly doesnt even care if shes a bm but my mom is so insistant
  • You're evil down to the core, aren't you? If I knew my sister felt that way about me (I outweigh her by about 50 pounds), I'd be absolutely devastated. I sincerely hope this is a joke.
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  • tidetravel if you arent going to help me than leave me alone
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_mom-wnats-ask-sister-bm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:357ebd15-43e3-46a3-a7ba-f5f274fe8ea7Post:ad65fba8-cd6e-41b1-9908-253a1b60feca">Re: mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm</a>:
    [QUOTE]tidetravel if you arent going to help me than leave me alone
    Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]
    Nope. 
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  • Yep- troll. Don't bother.
  • So first you complain about your BF not being able to afford a ring, then when he does give you a ring, you think it's too small. You also want to make him tan for your wedding photos - because God forbid his pallid skin ruin them, and now you want to tell your SISTER to lose weight because she HAD A BABY.

    Do you go through a checklist of "bridal don't's" just to post here and piss us off?
  • whatever your already married and have a baby why are you on the wedding board anyway!

    i just feel like i could try to help my sister without hurting her feelings!
  • Tide, Taryn is too cute in that pic :)
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  • so how did FI receive the message you wanted to upgrade your ring to a bigger one?
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  • I'll be your bridesmaid.  I'm sure you wouldn't mind old as long as I'm skinny!

    5'8", 115 lbs

    I ROCK!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_mom-wnats-ask-sister-bm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:357ebd15-43e3-46a3-a7ba-f5f274fe8ea7Post:8d66bb27-dc91-4e36-8f6c-ec118f83fc5a">Re: mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm</a>:
    [QUOTE]whatever your already married and have a baby why are you on the wedding board anyway! i just feel like i could try to help my sister without hurting her feelings!
    Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]
    I don't know.  Clearly I'm too fat to post here.
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  • Well then d@mn her.

    Your only solution is to invite her over for dinner and to spike her wine with ex lax and her dinner with ipecac.  Repeatedly.
  • banana - no replies from you please w/o some certain pics ;-)
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  • mud = wet dirt
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  • Oh, and she'd receive the message about as well as you are pretending to receive these and all the others you've gotten.
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    Do not mess in the affairs of dinosaurs because you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.
    I love you Missy. Even though you are not smart enough to take online quizzes to find out really important information. ~cew
  • i dont even know why i bother with you dum bitches anyways you never help!  and your not nice to anyone except the regulars!  whatever i have way better friends irl i can hang out with and ask questions from instead i dont need a DAMN WEDDING SIGHT
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_mom-wnats-ask-sister-bm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:357ebd15-43e3-46a3-a7ba-f5f274fe8ea7Post:74fee892-8501-4d41-8359-02d9b4bda1ae">Re: mom wnats me to ask my sister to be a bm</a>:
    [QUOTE]Tide, Taryn is too cute in that pic :)
    Posted by brookelynpaisley[/QUOTE]
    Thank you, Brooke  :)
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  • gosh you guys!
    I lost all of my baby weight by the end of the second week so it's totally possible!
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  • Troll

    Damn, I knew I should be logging on more often :(
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