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Because I want to popoff, WDWWT of this 'news' article?

I may be the only ogre on this one too:

Eight-year-old with cerebral palsy denied first communion because he was ‘incapable of understanding what it meant’

By Daily Mail Reporter
Last updated at 1:52 PM on 25th April 2011

A disabled boy was refused his first Holy Communion after a priest decided the child could not understand what it meant, his family have claimed.

Eight-year-old Kevin Castro's family have accused Father Phil Henning, priest at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church of Floresville, Texas, of 'discrimination' after he refused to carry out the ritual.

Instead Father Henning offered to give the the boy the sacrament of the anointing of the sick.

Refused: Eight-year-old Kevin Castro, seen here with his grandmother Irma, was denied his First Communion. His family have accused the priest involved of 'discrimination'

Irma Castro, Kevin's grandmother, said: 'That is the anointing they give you before death. That was very offensive.'

She claims the priest said her grandson, who suffers from cerebral palsy and has a mental age of six months, did not qualify for the Catholic initiation 'because he was not able to understand the meaning of receiving the body of Christ.'

 

 
irst Communion - the colloquial name for a child's first reception of the Sacrament of the Holy Eucharist - is an important religious milestone for children raised in Catholic families.

Catholic doctrine says that a child receiving Holy Communion must have 'sufficient knowledge' of Christ, but it doesn't specify what level of knowledge is considered sufficient.

Rite of passage: Father Phil Henning, priest at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church of Floresville, Texas, said Kevin was not able to understand the meaning of the sacrament, the boy's grandmother claims

The rite of passage is an important step towards Confirmation, which bestows full membership of the church, and is often accompanied by family gatherings and celebrations.

Deacon Pat Rodgers, from the Archdiocese of San Antonio, said the decision whether to give the sacrament lies with the priest.

'It's never our desire, hope or wish to withhold a sacrament from someone who wants or needs it,' Father Rodgers told KSAT12.

Mrs Castro said after spending months preparing her grandson for his communion the refusal had shaken her faith.

'I hurt for my grandson and my family,' she said.

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Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1380357/Eight-year-old-cerebral-palsy-denied-communion-incapable-understanding-meant.html#ixzz1KdOlGzsh

Re: Because I want to popoff, WDWWT of this 'news' article?

  • IDK enough about Catholicism, or any religion for that matter, but I kind of feel like BFD on both sides.  
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  • i was raised catholic but am no longer practicing.

    i actually agree with the Priest's actions - someone with a mental age of 6 months cannot have any understanding of the meaning of receiving communion. annoiting of the sick is not just for people on their deathbed - it's a blessing for someone who is seriously ill.

    Wolverine is almost 6 months, and her understanding of church is limited to "people are paying attention to me, pretty music, play with toys, need to eat hands, nom nom nom."

    one of the prerequisites for taking your first communion is going to confession, and i also doubt that this boy completed that, or any of the CCD/classes required.
  • I'm with Barbie. The point of the sacraments after baptism is that they are undertaken willingly and with full understanding. It's why they don't start CCD until kids are 7 - that's the age of reason in the Church. Before that, children are assumed not to understand the meaning of the sacraments or be held accountable for sins. 

    Catholicism is about rules. If you don't want to follow the rules, that's fine, but don't complain when the Church does. We all know I'm no huge fan of Darth Pope et al. these days, but it's their right to decide how their organization will be run. 
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  • GBCKGBCK member
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    I feel like less of an asshole now.

    Most of TIP was more like 'depriving the kiddie of bread and grape juice!'
  • Well, yeah, if it were symbolic, they'd probably let him have it. But it's not, so they can't. Sorry, Charlie. 
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Agreed with Barbie and Bmom on all accounts.
  • GBCKGBCK member
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    My church would let him take communion...because it IS symbolic and all that jazz.

    But I have to say, it would still rub me the wrong way.  I'd not say anythig--parent's choice and all that.  (my parent's choice was that we couldn't take communion at age 8.)
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