I'm trying to help my parents figure out their gift for my SIL's wedding. IL's are very materialistic, so I'm trying to walk a delicate path.
They're registered at Macy's, and the prices keep on changing. My parents are on a budget right now (as is everyone) and I'm trying to help them give enough of a gift to not be snubbed, but not too much for them right now (they have to travel to the wedding--Thanksgiving weekend, the most expesnive travel weekend of the year) and my dad recently had a major surgery so they're on disability as he recovers.
My question is, in terms of trying to spend $50 or $100 for the gift, is it appropriate to look at the full price for the $100, and if you get it on sale with coupons, discounts and actually pay less then it is still a $100 gift in terms of trying to reach a pricepoint? Or because you got it on sale, only use the sale price?
My SIL has registered for a ton of expensive stuff, but I'm watcing for a decent sale for my parents to take advantage of. I just don't know if the gift is really how much they actually spent, or how much the gift is worth (if that makes sense). Sorry if this seems superficial, DH and I have already spent over 1k being in my SIL's over the top wedding (we have major in law issues, and this isn't helping) so I'm kind of over spending a ton of money (or my parents doing so) at this point.