Sierra here, to remind you that your wedding is supposed to be about YOU and YOUR PARTNER!
It just makes me laugh so hard on how bridezillas are so particular on how their wedding is supposed to be like. Everything from having a huge wedding dress that has been altered 20 times just to make it fit you perfectly. Even though you could have ordered it one size smaller when you finalized your purchase. And all the way to exactly what pair of underwear your hubby-to-be should wear, the Scooby Do ones or TMNT?. Of course I am being dramatic, but you get the point!
Weddings have made a huge leap from being just a small gathering of family in a wheat field to a large party of people getting drunk and scoring a one night stand while being dressed in their best (because what's more sexy than a guy wearing a tux with a little vomit on it?!).
When I got engaged, my family was thrilled, not only because my mom wants to throw me out of the house, or in other words "get rid of me", but because they knew I wouldn't embarrass them with an outrageous wedding that was meaningless. I'm having a small wedding with (OMG you ready?) A Potluck! Yes, that's right! I bet I made all you "Potluck Nazi's" shiver! My wedding day is going to be nothing but Food, Friends, Family and Fun!
I try remembering what our wedding day is all about. It's the one day that marks an eternity of love and another stone in the path of life. But that's it! I don't see a reason to go in debt over it!
~Soon to become Mrs. O'Kane!~