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People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!

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Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!

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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:8fe30ce5-13dd-4154-95b8-b66f413cba46">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Lizzieyounce, then you could look forward to a bill!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    <div>But that won't work! You said so yourself! </div><div>
    </div><div>You think we aren't listening to you, but we are. See? I listened.</div>
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:1d293b97-a6fd-4d36-9e52-77c593c0b6ee">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]EaglesBride, while you insult my punctuation, please consider your gratuitous use of the letter U!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>::pats on head:: </div><div>
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    cookie0803cookie0803 member
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    In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!:In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!: That's not the point. You don't bill your guests because it's probably one of the rudest wedding related ideas ever considered, not because it won't work.Posted by cookie0803COOKIE! YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T GET THE SEVERITY OF THE SITUATION! SHE'S THE FIRST BRIDE TO EVER HAVE THIS PROBLEM! IT'S SO DIFFICULT! Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

    Clearly I'm ignorant.

    OP, you poor, generous, delightful woman, I can't believe they would be so disrespectful! You should bill all of your guests, regardless of whether or not they come!

    Now reread that with all the sarcasm you can muster.
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    BaffledBride721BaffledBride721
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    JessAndTrav, I bet you wouldn't be so rude away from your computer!
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    cookie0803cookie0803 member
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    In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!:[QUOTE]JessAndTrav, I bet you wouldn't be so rude away from your computer! Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    And I bet you would.
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    HandBananaHandBanana member
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    This is causing flashbacks to the SO plus one post. MUD or troll or real there is no reason to give this more attention.
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:a3aa255e-1adf-407a-a6a7-08b1b4277384">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]JessAndTrav, I bet you wouldn't be so rude away from your computer!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    <div>You're right. I wouldn't because I wouldn't be able to stop laughing long enough to speak. </div><div>
    </div><div>Do you act this entitled IRL?</div>
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:21b44ed4-b1d2-4c1a-a5d5-3c8c86d4ca02">Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]This is causing flashbacks to the SO plus one post. MUD or troll or real there is no reason to give this more attention.
    Posted by HandBanana[/QUOTE]

    <div>I wouldn't have even responded, but I'm <em>that</em> bored tonight. :)</div><div>
    </div><div>ETA: Banana, I love your shark picture.</div>
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    BaffledBride721BaffledBride721
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    Says the person who responded! How dare you be so judgmental as to tell others where and how to post!
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    WildMageletWildMagelet member
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    Uh...I call MUD.
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    Epiphany1031Epiphany1031
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:3de6d4bc-d615-4c65-bd71-332f7c05588f">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Says the person who responded! How dare you be so judgmental as to tell others where and how to post!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    How dare you be so judgemental as to want to uninvite someone because they forgot to RSVP!! Exclamation!!!!
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:0dc4ceef-de2d-4e6e-87bc-df1bdd22905a">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive! : If by some chance you're real, you are a grade A moron.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    <div>Maybe she's confuzzled since there are two people in this post with shark signatures?</div><div>
    </div><div>Pictures are hard.</div>
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    HandBananaHandBanana member
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    In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!:This is causing flashbacks to the SO plus one post. MUD or troll or real there is no reason to give this more attention.Posted by HandBananaI wouldn't have even responded, but I'm thatnbsp;bored tonight. :ETA: Banana, I love your shark picture. Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]
    Thanks! Misunderstood shark meme. Check it out. Hilarious!
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    Epiphany1031Epiphany1031
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:0dc4ceef-de2d-4e6e-87bc-df1bdd22905a">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive! : If by some chance you're real, you are a grade A moron.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    Agreed.. what a waste of advice
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    BaffledBride721BaffledBride721
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    So rude!! I will never post here again!
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:1e674cab-d842-4da0-a087-b9f7c3aee586">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]So rude!! I will never post here again!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    <div>How tragic! Thanks for entertaining me for a little while! It was fun while it lasted!</div><div>
    </div><div>!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</div>
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    Baffled, before you go---

    I just want to say that you actually got decent advice, and then you decided to press on about how your opinon was better than ours, when you came to us for advice.

    Just remember that. Have fun losing friends when you send out those bills!
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    Kristin789Kristin789 member
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    Of course she's a troll or an AE.  She just joined T O D A Y to cause trouble.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:1e674cab-d842-4da0-a087-b9f7c3aee586">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]So rude!! I will never post here again!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    Don't let the door hit you.
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive! : Don't let the door hit you.
    Posted by RebeccaB88[/QUOTE]

    <div>You probably didn't see it, because it was in another thread, but she reminded us of the golden rule, so BE NICE! ;)</div>
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    BrittneyRNBrittneyRN
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    I'm wondering in what form her proposed PSA will come in? A Facebook message? A billboard? A commercial during the opening ceremony of the olympics?
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    mbaetembaete member
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    just read through this post, and am now BSC..Bat Shiz Crazy.
    Time for bed.
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    JessAndTravJessAndTrav member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:6628f93e-8dfc-4d14-bd94-97b770c342d5">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm wondering in what form her proposed PSA will come in? A Facebook message? A billboard? <strong>A commercial during the opening ceremony of the olympics?</strong>
    Posted by BrittneyRN[/QUOTE]

    <div>Duh!</div>
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    lauraanne9lauraanne9 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:54b9a1e4-f8b1-48c6-8383-82111053d426">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive! : I didn't say that it's a problem, but the way you said it, it's lke you  expect  her to do it. Just don't forget to offer. After all, it's YOUR wedding, not hers. In Response to  Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive! : If the deadline was today, people just think you need to take a breath, because via the internet, it seems as though you're a little panicked.  In terms of etiquette on your guests' part, <strong>unfortunately, not everyone knows what goes into planning a wedding </strong>and that the RSVP is important.  You will have to do the work to fix "their mess", but it's not that hard to make phone calls, you know?
    Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>This this this.</div><div>
    </div><div>I know it is polite to RSVP and I am usually pretty good about it.  I am sure there is a time or 2 I have forgotten.  And I always felt bad about it, but it is so easy to put the invitation to the side because you got the mail at 11pm, meaning to send back the card, etc.  However, after being the one planning the wedding, and it is pretty much me doing it...I have help but I am the main planner...I am going to send back every RSVP for the rest of my life the minute I get it.  </div><div>
    </div><div>So, cut them some slack.  Until you are planning the wedding, you have NO idea the issues people planning them deal with!</div>
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    lauraanne9lauraanne9 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:0622219f-23be-4253-9ee8-50b889a63782">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]At $100/plate, I expect people to show a little more respect towards me! I didn't HAVE to invite them at all! You know? I don't think it's fair to hold the people footing the bill to a higher responsibility of etiquette than those mooching off of me and my family! For those that we've already paid for and don't show, I think it's appropriate to bill them, personally!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I sense a troll.  No real bride talks about billing guests for the cost of dinner or any of the other things she is talking about.</div>
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    lauraanne9lauraanne9 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:71ef5d5e-c386-48aa-8110-082a3e11317f">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes of course billing was a joke! It's not as if I would end up seeing a dime of that money anyway!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yup.  Troll.</div>
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    It's not even 6 am yet and it is just oo early for this crap.  She wasn't even a good troll.
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    pkontkpkontk member
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    Well, that gave me a few moments of entertainment over my morning coffee. Thanks OP! Enjoy your wedding!
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    roseofdeborahroseofdeborah
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    [QUOTE]I'm just running ideas by people, RebeccaB! No need to resort to childish name calling!
    Posted by BaffledBride721[/QUOTE]

    She thinks calling her a Troll is childish name calling. Poor little trolls.
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    nextrightthingnextrightthing member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-dont-rsvp-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ba431e1e-5711-4dd0-8737-c02d441671efPost:cabe3555-8b7d-438f-9be8-9ba1e29d803a">Re: People don't RSVP! Please help! Time sensitive!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think we've moved into troll category.  You can't possibly think like this and have not been called out on it before.  This takes entitlement to an unreal level.
    Posted by RebeccaB88[/QUOTE]

    This.
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