I am going into my 3rd marriage, and we will be getting married as soon as my divorce from the last husband is final (a year separation required by the state, will be in Nov). I was married to the last husband less than 6 years (with him 11). I feel my reasons for leaving him were very legitimate, and I love my fiancé. But I am worried people will judge us. I assume a "real" wedding is out of the question but I don't want to spend a fortune again any way so I can live with that. But I am really hoping people will be happy for us, and that we can send announcements out that will be well received. I am also worried because I don't want people to think the announcement is a gift expectation because I just want to share what is for us very good news. We will probably be having a "just us" or very small handful of people wedding so if anyone has ideas how to make it really special sans all the expense and guest list I would love to hear. I hope this type of wedding can still feel special. Thanks for your help!