shaw2010

TheDuckis · May 2010

How many people are going to be at your wedding. Only 2 people who are out to destroy your day is pretty low odds. Are you sure your fMIL isn't going to do something awful like wear black? What if one of your BMs does something pornographic at the bachelorette party?

You may want to make a list of all your guests and all the atrocities they might commit, just so you're prepared.

*Barbie* · May 2010

TD your sarcasm was totally lost here. I'm thinking she's a few crayons short of a full box...

TheDuckis · May 2010

By all means, ask about the MOH situation. We're good at complicated and sad.

hmonkey · May 2010

[QUOTE]Don't play with me
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]

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TheDuckis · May 2010

Okay. I thought you were kind of a b!tch when you posted about your SIL. Then I thought you were kind of ridiculous when you posted about your FI's drunky friends. Then I thought you were just kind of dim witted and stupid when you didn't get the whole bolding and short bus thing, so I started to feel sorry for you.

Now you've confirmed that you're all of the above, but I don't feel sorry for you at all. I cannot believe you would not invite your MOH's sister because you don't want her to have to divide her attention between you. Your MOH has every right to be mad as hell, and if I were her I'd never speak to you again. How can you be so insensitive to someone who's supposedly your best friend?

Get a clue.

LnR70707 · May 2010

OMG...you really told your MOH that her sister couldn't come because she was mentally disabled??? This is offensive on so many levels it isn't funny. The only sad part about this is your treatment of that poor girl. You never should have even brought it up. That is just horrible.

My sister is learning disabled and changed into pants and a t-shirt halfway through the reception because the dress was bothering her. No one cared!!!

You are a douche.

*Barbie* · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:c75d3849-950a-4ec2-a1cc-f5d44d879431">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]this story is longer than my break. but....i'll try to condense it. <strong>My MOH has a sister that is special needs about 25 yrs of age. She sister needs asistance with some things like bathroom clean up and some other things. I felt that it wasn't a big deal if her sister did not come</strong> and plus I felt that this was an event that she might want to relax at and not have responsibilities. Well all poop hit the fan when I told her that. So, she quits because her sister can't come. I was thinking of the ceremony... my friend would have to walk her down the aisle and seat her before the ceremony started. Plus during the reception she would have to walk her to the bathroom and fix her plate. The plate, I didn't care about.<strong> but the bathroom and her dress did not mix well with me</strong>. Also for the limo ride...who was she going to ride with. So she quit. And said that she wasn't coming to the wedding either. When I stress my points and explain my plight to her. she still stated that she will not be in the wedding and will not attend. I questioned "you wouldn't even come to the wedding with you sister". She said no and that she don't want to make a spectical and have people pointing and talking about them. AND that she also didn't want to come because if she was not in the wedding, she would "feel weird". YEA..I think I covered it all.
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>so basically, you're discriminating against your own kind? not cool. </div><div>
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TheDuckis · May 2010

DED, Barbie. You're on a roll, as usual.

Cant_wait! · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:513f836f-691a-4901-9cac-58cdf0d60ce1">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]You know what F UP BOTH
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]
hahaha!

NOLABridesmaid · May 2010

Things turned ugly pretty fast.

Cant_wait! · May 2010

oh, she DD'd that? Just in case you missed it Duckis and Barbie, Shaw told you to "F UP". So you better do that, and not get any on your dress while you're at it.

LnR70707 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:82fc2ddc-78fe-4982-b739-eab2ce2dd308">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]NO NO NO NO. I didn't think it was a big deal because we did talk about it and she said ok. Then she brought it up again and said that I had a problem. i SAID THAT HER SISTER COULD COME BUT IT WOULD MAKE THINGS COMPLICATED WITH THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION. I said that they both can come but she doesn't want to if she not in the wedding.
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]

If you said at any point in time to your MOH that her sister will be a "complication" you were being horribly insensitive. Do you really think that your MOH didn't thoroughly think this out on her own? She has known her sister for 25 years, I am pretty sure that she knows what she can and cannot handle. It is very clear you have a problem with the sister, your MOH was probably in shock when you first asked her to leave her sister behind. Your MOH has every right to drop out of your wedding. You are a tool.

TheDuckis · May 2010

I saw it. Good catch.

Shaw, what happens on the internet stays on the internet.

You're a horrible person and I wish nothing but bad things for you. And I feel sorry for your FI.

Butter Cookie · May 2010

You know, I get it. You theoretically want MOH to be able to focus on you, and not on her special needs sister. But in reality this is a big part of MOH's life, and you saying you don't want the sister there is a slap in her face. She's clearly dedicated herself to helping someone she loves who cannot help themself, and thought you understood that struggle.

I'm sorry you aren't able to step into her shoes and see what she's going through.

LnR70707 · May 2010

awww....guess the little drama queen couldn't take the heat.

I hope you freak the f_ck out on your big day. DIAF.

shaw2010 · May 2010

U know what I don't think I care what any has to say. I know what I mean and meant and what my intentions are or were. Even my friend understand this. but now she doesn't want to come to the wedding if she not in it. I already talked to her about this. but the issue was that she still didn't want her and HER SISTER come if she not in the wedding. Whats her real issue?

Mrs.Thistletwat · May 2010

clearly, you are her "real issue."

TheDuckis · May 2010

Your friend understands so well that she won't even come to your wedding. You're an idiot if you don't think she's terribly offended, and you're a jerk if you don't think she has a reason to be.

*Barbie* · May 2010

i haz a sad that i missed it.

I'm totally going to F UP now... as soon as someone explains wtf it is. :-)

Cant_wait! · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:de6e1a2c-bc59-403c-8255-7d8dcac83ad1">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]U know what I don't think I care what any has to say. I know what I mean and meant and what my intentions are or were. Even my friend understand this. but now she doesn't want to come to the wedding if she not in it. I already talked to her about this. but the issue was that she still didn't want her and HER SISTER come if she not in the wedding.<strong> Whats her real issue?</strong>
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]
My Guess? You and your insensitivity towards her relationship with her sister.

Butter Cookie · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:de6e1a2c-bc59-403c-8255-7d8dcac83ad1">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]U know what I don't think I care what any has to say. I know what I mean and meant and what my intentions are or were. Even my friend understand this. but now she doesn't want to come to the wedding if she not in it. I already talked to her about this. but the issue was that she still didn't want her and HER SISTER come if she not in the wedding. Whats her real issue?
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]

Her real issue is that she's not sure how to feel about being such close friends with someone and not picking up that you don't understand what she's going through with her sister. Also, you've put her in a bad spot by initially saying you don't want her sister there, and I'm sure she doesn't want to go anywhere her sister isn't welcome.

TheDuckis · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:5a185970-a0d9-4f1b-a4cd-e37b55e7d371">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]Thank you Duckis that make me feel good to know that I have someone that wishes bad things. But I hope to have a wonderful and you don't get fatter
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]

A wonderful what?

And I could stand to gain a few pounds, actually. But nice try.

Cant_wait! · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:5a185970-a0d9-4f1b-a4cd-e37b55e7d371">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]Thank you Duckis that make me feel good to know that I have someone that wishes bad things. But I hope to have a wonderful and you don't get fatter
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]
Good one. Because she's just <em>HUGE</em> now.

*Barbie* · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_shaw2010?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:cdd34e83-e63f-4067-bbfe-18c7d07d5e7dPost:de6e1a2c-bc59-403c-8255-7d8dcac83ad1">Re: *shaw2010*</a>:
[QUOTE]U know what I don't think I care what any has to say. I know what I mean and meant and what my intentions are or were. Even my friend understand this. but now she doesn't want to come to the wedding if she not in it. I already talked to her about this. but the issue was that she still didn't want her and HER SISTER come if she not in the wedding. Whats her real issue?
Posted by shaw2010[/QUOTE]

<div>her issue is that her mentally challenged friend is discriminating against her mentally challenged sister, and she's not cool with that. </div><div>
</div><div>you were right to fire her - you need an Aide-of-Honor who can attend to all of your bathroom and food cutting needs. </div><div>
</div><div>also, you asked about transportation earlier, and the answer is pretty obvious. who needs a limo when you have a short bus? </div><div>
</div><div>thank you, and goodnight. </div>

NOLABridesmaid · May 2010

I know what I mean and meant and what my intentions are or were. Even my friend understand this

II don't think that she does because she's not coming.

Cant_wait! · May 2010

Your little jabs at people are really helping to reveal your personality. No wonder your SIL and MOH don't like you.

LnR70707 · May 2010

"she doesn't want to come to the wedding if she not in it."

Why is her only option to show up as a guest with her sister? Her issue is that you kicked (maybe not specifically, but your concerns said this for you) out of the bridal party because she had a handicapped sister. You must be f_cking blind if you can't see that. If your friend says she understands, she is just being polite to get away from your drama.

MinM · May 2010

So many issues with this one.

**O-Face** · May 2010

Wow. THAT was fun.

LnR70707 · May 2010

ahahahahaha

Something tells me the sister can speak more eloquently than this twat.

NOLABridesmaid · May 2010

I have a question.

Did your friend assume her sister was coming or did you invite her to the wedding?

Did you also invite any of the other members of her family?

shaw2010

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