Hand-Tying Ceremony

melntaitt · January 2012

My parents, grandparents, cousins and everyone had a hand-tying as a part of an African American ceremony. It's a long string of cochre type sea shells that the priest used to bind our hands and it signified a bond and unity.

Our officiant said he would look into it and got back to me asking if I understood it was a part of a witchcraft ceremony...I wasn't aware.

My mother said it wasn't as did most of my relatives, but now I'm just confused...does anybody know about this?

artbyallie · January 2012

Handfasting is indeed an originally pagan tradition, if that's what you're referring to.

melntaitt · January 2012

I hope it isn't...I was trying to keep it traditional but now I'm thinking of leaving it out.

kimiandgary · January 2012

It sounds very similar to a pagan tradition seen in a lot of Irish/Celtic weddings. But if its part of your family traditions, I say include it.

hmacsine · January 2012

I agree with pp. Since its a family tradition, I think you should still include it in your ceremony.

melntaitt · January 2012

Thanks all!

MissCtoMrsC1020 · May 2012

Handfasting was done because it had symbolic significance; people didn't wear wedding rings. It was a way to embody the commitment between the bride and groom. It does not mean that if you choose a handfasting, you are honoring pagan gods or practicing witchcraft. It's a great family tradition, so honor it!

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