Bachelorette Party

Re: Bachelorette Party

• MairePoppy mod

  

  January 2012

  You dont' actually do the inviting because you are not the host.
  
  Usually, the host asks the bride for a guest list, but may limit the number of people on the list. Only those invited to the wedding should be on that guest list. If there are people that you don't want invited, the host should respect that.
  
  Is she trying to invite your mom or grandmother?
  

                     

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• Ash61612 member

  

  January 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bachelorette-party-dilemas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:3a1bb87d-bd39-402d-9f65-8ad99c543e85Post:e21041ad-8d0f-4619-8ba1-5e3b6be6fcba">Re: Bachelorette Party</a>:
  [QUOTE]You dont' actually do the inviting because you are not the host. <strong>Usually, the host asks the bride for a guest list, but may limit the number of people on the list. Only those invited to the wedding should be on that guest list. If there are people that you don't want invited, the host should respect that. Is she trying to invite your mom or grandmother?</strong>
  Posted by MairePoppy[/QUOTE]
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• LoveMuffins member

  

  January 2012

  I mean... yeah you should have some say in it.
  Ie.
  My MOH said "Who do you want to invite?"
  I asked, "How many people can I invite?"
  She said: "Whoever you want."
  Ok great, I invited about 30 people, all the people that I wanted there. But if she had said 10 people, I would've invited my 6 BMs and 4 of my closest friends.
  
  If you're trying to force somenoe to let you invite more people than they can afford... that's not ok and makes you a pretty terrible friend. If you're trying to make the guest list smaller because you don't want to invite everyone that the host wants to invite... that's something you can put your foot down about, and if they don't agree then you can decline the party.

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• colemanml member

  

  January 2012

  Ok here is a little more info....my MOH is being awesome about the party, since she is the one who is planning it.  We basically wanted to invite our circle of friends and some of the wives of groomsmen.  However, the mothers (both mine and his) are insisting on attending (along with several of their friends and other family members I don't really want there).  My MOH wants to honor my requests and is only going to invite the girls I want, but the mothers won't drop the idea of them and their friends attending.  I really don't want them there.....

  
  

  This whole wedding has been nothing but battles and I am about ready to say screw it and elope. 

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• PDXbridesmaids

  

  February 2012

  I agree with RetreadBride.

  
  

  mom's at a bachelorette party - does not sound fun!  Maybe have a special dinner/drinks night with them with the bridesmaids etc.  Maybe they just want to be included in all the fun girl time.

  
  

  Good luck

  Victoria

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