So here's the situation. I am a 35yo bride and my fiancee and I basically have a complete house. I told my MOH that I didn't feel like I needed a shower because it would be the same women as at my bachlorette party. Am I missing out on the fun? I have also been told that it would be nice to include people more (I have a hard time asking others to do things for me). Is a shower something that others really want to do?