I'd love some opinions/advice on some recent WR dramaz in my life...
I'm in a wedding in June. There is a MOH, another BM, and me. BM1 offered to plan the bachelorette, and I'm busy as is MOH so that was all fine. But BM1 took a month's vacation abroad, and has been MIA. I emailed her regarding planning the bachelorette plans awhile ago, no response.
A week ago, the bride's fiance emails everyone saying "bachelorette/bachelor parties are may 13th in Vegas". #1 - 4 weeks notice is not that much . #2 - it's $500 just to fly and I can't afford that. #3 I leave for China a week later, so that much travel will drain me. So I replied saying I can't go, and told the bride we could do something else the week of the wedding but not Vegas. Apparently, the other girls all felt the same way. I already told the bride I'd take charge of a smaller bachelorette the week of the wedding in Boston, and emailed everyone about that.
This morning, the brides fiance emails me, MOH, BM1 and a couple other friends and chews us out for not going to Vegas. His direct words were "You better figure out a way to make this up to her."
Am I wrong for thinking he is WAY out of line for emailing me? I think it's not his business to get involved in and that even if it was, I'm not obligated to plan anything as a bridesmaid. Or am I being a brat?
Also, wwyd now? My plan is to not respond. Would you respond? do something else?