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Lingerie shower/bachelorette

wilmaandfredwilmaandfred member
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I am a MOH planning my best friend's lingerie shower/bachelorette.  Her FSIL is a bridesmaid and they are on good terms but I don't think they're very close, I think she was definitely asked to be in the party as a concession to her FI's mom.  Should I invite her?  I can see that FSIL might feel weird about watching my friend open all this sexy underwear knowing who'll be "appreciating" her in it... but I don't want there to be a controversial hissy fit with my friend's FMIL about how I'm a bad MOH and left FSIL out. So do I invite her or not?
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Re: Lingerie shower/bachelorette

  • pearlaquapearlaqua member
    Third Anniversary 100 Comments
    I think it's weirder to not invite her than to have her there. Adults can attend lingerie parties and be all icky-feeling about it.

    She can always decline!
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  • MairePoppyMairePoppy mod
    Moderator Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its
    Yes, unless this FSIL is a child, she should be invited to the lingerie shower/bp. If she is uncomfortable with it, she will have the option of declining the invitation.
                       
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  • Pilot&Virologist1820Pilot&Virologist1820
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    I agree w/the other ladies. She knows that it is a lingerie party so she will know the ramifications of it. That being said, if she does not like the idea, she can politely decline. I believe the other guests will understand.
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