Ok...I'm going to try to make this make sense. Most importantly, though, know that I am just venting and can't do it on facebook like I'd just love to.
My FH's friend T has been his friend since they were 5 along with their friend Marie. When Troy and his 'lovely' wife had a shotgun wedding 2 years ago, she tried to keep my FH from attending the wedding because it was to be "small" even though her hubby and his whole family wanted him there.
Now that we're getting married, we both wanted T to be the best man in the wedding. He's been tough to reach because he's been in military training, so we went through his wife to discuss whether or not he could be in the party and perhaps their son could be involved as well. She was very negative about it and said they were moving to another state.
Since then, my FH has chosen M to be his "best woman" instead. Now we've learned that Troy is upset that he's not going to be involved. I told him he could just expand the groom's party and make him a groomsman to which he replied "I can do that?!" It was adorable.
I just wish this biatch of a woman would stop victimizing my poor FH. I have half a mind to not invite her or their illigitimate children to the wedding. Scratch that. Her kids are great. She's just an ignorant, self-absorbed jerk.
In the end, it works out for me, because I get to have the one friend I wanted to add to my party into the mix and that makes me ecstatic. I just feel bad that the man who's been by my FH's side forever is stuck with such an intrusive, selfish, jerk and it affects my poor FH.
Why are women so crazy?!