I've decided to bite the bullet and hire a day-of coordinator. I had a friend offer to do it for free, and everyone kept telling me to use her, but she's having a baby less than three months before the wedding and her older daughter is a flower girl. And, we're considering asking her to sing. I think she'll have enough on her mind. Someone please tell me it's the right decision even though it means squeezing it into the budget! I've contacted a few, but any recs would be greatly appreciated!