I unfortunately had to scrap my entire wedding and postpone the whole thing. Right away I told my MOH about the changes. That we were doing a destination wedding in Hawaii. Luckily she hadn't bought her dress yet or started planning the shower or anything like that. I told her due to financial problems we are unable to afford the wedding, and to save money we scaled it way down, and that I really hoped she could make it, and that I could help her with a portion of the airfare, and my mom is getting a big house and she would let her stay there for cheap if she wanted to come. She has been putting a huge guilt trip on me, telling me I am being unfair to her etc. I have apologized to her and told her I would love for her to come, and I wouldhelp her make it work, I even tried joking with her saying it could be a fun adventure for us, she's just plain annoyed at me. I don't understand. Am I putting her out? I offered to help her out. So am I wrong to feel frustrated with her attitude. I dunno, should I just ignore her and let her whine.