My BF and I have discussed getting married for several months now. He is having a hard time saving up for a ring because of some unforeseen events. Therefore, we are not officially engaged. We had kind of talked about getting married next Feb. or March. About a month ago, September, his sister got engaged. They are getting married in May. When my boyfriend asked if it was ok if we got married before them, his sister said she'd "appreciate" it if we waited until after hers because this is her time. She seems to be making a big deal about it though.
Now, my boyfriend and I don't want to wait until after her wedding. We only want a small wedding with just family and a few friends. Nothing fancy. I have saved the money for all of it, so it wouldn't be any burden to my BF's family.
Is it unreasonable to cut in line?