Ok, I just need to see if this was totaly rude or not, but one of my good friends said she can't come to my wedding because she booked a flight to Europe. This was a girl who asked me to be a bridesmaid for HER wedding so we are pretty close. I had of course told her what day my wedding was, and she should have at least known the month, but failed to call and double check the day (I haven't technically send out invitations yet). I totally expected her to be there, but maybe I'm being crazy about it. She asked me the day and time after she already booked her flight, I tell her 6 o'clock.....then she asks if it's 6 AM or PM. WHAT? who has a wedding at 6 AM!? Then she says she feels bad about it and wants to hang out during the day before the wedding. Again... WHAT!?? Um, I will be sort of busy on my wedding day.... can't really just "hang out" because you failed to find out what day my wedding was that you supposedly wanted to attend. I'm just so upset about this, but perhaps I'm making this bigger than it is? TIA