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Re: Sunday Evening

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:272a1fe6-5f18-45de-b16d-9bfe3d651b7b">Re: Sunday Evening</a>:
    [QUOTE]Why?  Because fucck you, that's why.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    Ha, fact.

    She puked all over my ILs' house this morning.  She is not sick.  There was nothing we could find that she could have gotten into.  She came home and ate fine.  I mean, she was stressed out, and hadn't been getting her medicine (aldkflakdfl;kzdf;ldkflkddfgjk!), but yeah.  She pretty much just puked all over their house to say fuuucck you to them, I'm pretty sure.

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  • well, duh, J.  Cats have a sixth sense about that.  
  • If you were going to have someone come to your house twice a day to medicate your cat for a week (no litter cleaning or feeding duties or anything like that, this is a 5 minute--hopefully--visit to medicate only), and keeping in mind that this is a very difficult cat to medicate....how much would you pay them?

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  • I'm cheap. $25.
  • angelstar975angelstar975 member
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    edited July 2012
    J, you sure have your hands full with your spiteful kitty and your H who narrarates his life to annoy you. Is he still doing that?

    ETA - How much time a day will they be spending at your house?

    ETA again - NVM, reading fail. For 10 minutes total, I think $25 would be pretty generous.
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    [QUOTE]J, you sure have your hands full with your spiteful kitty and your H who narrarates his life to annoy you. Is he still doing that? ETA - How much time a day will they be spending at your house?
    Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

    She is SO spiteful.  That's an excellent word for it.  He hasn't done it in a few days.  Sometimes when I'm annoying him (usually purposely) he will do it for a couple minutes.  Usually just until I stop annoying him.  Ha!

    They'd hopefully not be there for any longer than 5 minutes.  We have someone else staying there to feed and entertain her.  So they'd come in, get the medicine ready, medicate her, give her treats and maybe spend a few minutes petting her so she doesn't associate them solely with medicating her.

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  • angelstar975angelstar975 member
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    edited July 2012
    I think $25 a day is plenty for that. It might even be kinda high, but I don't know if I'd do it for less, unless it was a friend's cat. Is this a friend or just a random pet sitter?

    Actually, I think $100 for the week is plenty.
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  • It's one of H's coworkers.

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  • Ha, I meant $25 for the week. Maybe $50.
  • Would it be weird to just leave her whatever, and then give her a "tip" if we find out she (the cat, not the sitter, ha) was especially difficult?

    Because I want to give more just because I know she's a total PITA (the IL's won't even try to medicate her)...but I also know that this person might not have any issues at all, and it would suck to overpay her a lot in anticipation of something that didn't actually happen, KWIM?

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  • How come the person who is staying there can't give her the medicine?

    My brain is not totally working right now, $25 a day probably would be absurd for that, haha. I probably wouldn't go lower than $10 a day though.
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  • I'd say 25 cash. or maybe a really good bottle of wine or a GC to a restaurant or something?
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    [QUOTE]How come the person who is staying there can't give her the medicine? My brain is not totally working right now, $25 a day probably would be absurd for that, haha. I probably wouldn't go lower than $10 a day though.
    Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

    The person staying there is FIL, and he refuses to medicate her.  He and MIL tried once, and she was a PITA about it (she's a fuuuucking cat) and they freaked out and said that they "just couldn't do that to the poor cat."

    Fuuucking seriously?  She's a cat.  She doesn't want her medicine.  It tastes bad.  If your child didn't want their medicine, would you be like "oh, ok, well you don't have to have it becaues I feel bad that you don't want it,"?  NO.  You'd make the damn kid take their damn medicine.

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  • I like the idea of paying in liquor. What adult doesn't appreciate that?

    In other news, I just saw someone's wedding pictures that included a money tree. I forgot that was a thing.
  • Ha...can you tell I'm a bit angry about it?

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  • angelstar975angelstar975 member
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    edited July 2012
    Just read your last post. Yeah, I think that's probably fine. If she's already doing it and you didn't agree to an amount, then pretty much anything you give her will probably be appreciated.

    ETA - I'm slow as all get out right now. This was actually to the post before your last one, haha. I'd be annoyed too, the cat needs her medicine, they should just give her the damn medicine.
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    [QUOTE]Ha...can you tell I'm a bit angry about it?
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    No, I couldn't tell. You're always good at keeping your frustrations a secret. ;)
  • I'm SUPER good at keeping my frustrations secret!  If I WANT to ;)

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  • I would do ten bucks per pop and then a tip if I found out the cat had been especially trying. 

    Unless your cat's a scratcher/biter. I might go to $15 per day.
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    [QUOTE]I'm SUPER good at keeping my frustrations secret!  If I WANT to ;)
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    I find your ability to voice your frustrations with others charming!
  • She's not a scratcher or biter, at least she hasn't been. 

    Thanks for the advice guys!  You're all helpful, as usual :)  Now I'm off to bed.  Goodnight!

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    [QUOTE]She's not a scratcher or biter, at least she hasn't been.  Thanks for the advice guys!  You're all helpful, as usual :)  Now I'm off to bed.  Goodnight!
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    <div>I think ten is sufficient then. Night!</div>
  • Yeah, I think I'm also going to have to go to bed. I've volunteered myself to be a driver for a kids'  day-camp at much church because it's my nephew's first year to attend.

    It's going to be a long week of waking up early when I've gotten accustomed to sleeping until 10am this summer.

    At least tomorrow's activity is in the air-conditioning.
  • Night Jess. Have fun. I'm out too.
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