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NWR.... I just need to vent...

megz03030megz03030
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So.... today is my birthday and guess what. My FI didn't get me anything for my birthday. I know money is tight right now especially with wedding, but he could have atleast gotten me a card.... I am so mad and hurt.... Am I just being stupid for feeling this way?
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  • XxKrazy4uXxKrazy4u member
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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

    Aww well the day has just started so maybe there is some surprise waiting for you when you get home ;-)
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  • megz03030megz03030
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    Nope... we are both home all day and he flat out admited he didnt get me anything

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  • audreyjemaudreyjem
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    Happy birthday! No you aren't wrong for feeling that way. Tell him how you feel, maybe he'll do something to make up for it!
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  • TlongoTlongo
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    Happy birthday!! Sorry he didn't do anything special for you.
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  • klw0022klw0022
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    Happy Birthday girlie! The day's not over, don't give up hope! ;)
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  • Soon2BSandSoon2BSand
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    The day isn't over... think of it that way. :)
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  • arauchtearauchte
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    Happy Birthday! You aren't wrong for feeling this way.  My friend celebrated her birthday on her Honeymoon and was bummed when her husband didn't do anything special for her.  it isperfectly understandable a little acknowledgment would be nice.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! Don't stress girlfriend... My FI didnt get me anything for my birthday last year either. ( he forgot) Let me just tell you he didn't get anything from me either for a long time... catch my drift?
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  • lnvane00lnvane00 member
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    Happy Birthday!!

    I would be really upset too. More hurt than mad. But screw it!! If he's not gonna do something for you, then just do something for yourself!! Go get a pedicure! They're pretty cheap and last for a while! And it really feels like your spoiling yourself. :)
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  • megz03030megz03030
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_nwr-just-need-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:125b556c-14c3-49a6-b328-bfa2435e933ePost:147b2125-22ab-4ca8-811f-aaaf58c1b415">Re: NWR.... I just need to vent...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Happy Birthday!! I would be really upset too. More hurt than mad. But screw it!! If he's not gonna do something for you, then just do something for yourself!! Go get a pedicure! They're pretty cheap and last for a while! And it really feels like your spoiling yourself. :)
    Posted by lnvane00[/QUOTE]

    Thats exactly what I was going to do :)
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  • ashleighelizabethashleighelizabeth
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    Happy birthday! I agree with PP: go do something for yourself!
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  • mancila60mancila60
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    Happy Birthday! Sorry for the gift I know I would be at least upset about it.
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  • daizee32daizee32 member
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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
    I would tell him how you feel. 
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  • Glambride09Glambride09 member
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    So sorry to hear you're feeling hurt.  I agree with PP though...the day isn't over...maybe he'll do something like make you dinner or dessert or rent your favorite movie, it may not be much but it's the little things that can be the most special, especially when money is tight.

    If he doesn't do anything, then I'm all for splurging a little for a manicure or even a pretty polish change to make you feel special.  Can't always depend on others to make us feel good...even when they should :)

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_nwr-just-need-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:125b556c-14c3-49a6-b328-bfa2435e933ePost:c2013f43-5679-4d83-8202-887cb2d0c926">Re: NWR.... I just need to vent...</a>:
    [QUOTE]HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I would tell him how you feel. 
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    <div>Happy Birthday, I too would tell him how you feel. He may have just been being economical and didn't think that you would be hurt at no gift. I would also go out and spoil yourself :)</div>
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  • FutureMrsSheelerFutureMrsSheeler
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    Happy Birthday! :) I would tell him how you feel and go have a night out on the town!
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