Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:0a465437-82db-4da6-8fa4-8e9dee2eab08">Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>: [QUOTE]Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated. Posted by ridedatbike[/QUOTE] No. The bride has no right to control her bridesmaid's fingernails, period. These are not props, people! These are human beings. If you're making decisions about your wedding "for the pictures", you need a reality check.
I work in a psych hospital and tips are not allowed for infection control/safety reasons. I would definitely not get tips just to pull them if off the next day. I don't care who is paying for them.
In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated.Posted by ridedatbikeNo.nbsp; The bride has no right to control her bridesmaid's fingernails, period.nbsp; These are not props, people!nbsp; These are human beings.nbsp; If you're making decisions about your wedding "for the pictures", you need a reality check. Posted by Viczaesar
Ok major reading fail I don't think I ever said she had any right to control her I gave her suggestions since obviously she wants their nails done and I also.stated that its ultimately on the bridesmaid....however it is BS that no one notices details. I don't think a bride has the right to be a dictator but I would never advise someone to have professional photos taken of them selves and stand in front of a bunch of people without fine tuning those details because they show. Again its on her if she doesn't care that's her business but people definitely notice details so I just think its BS to say that they wont. its just something brides have yo accept and live with friends are more important than pictures.....God propel seriously misunderstand everything I type.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:d9fb958e-4dd0-42bd-a183-caf1e8d6cb38">Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated.Posted by ridedatbikeNo.nbsp; The bride has no right to control her bridesmaid's fingernails, period.nbsp; These are not props, people!nbsp; These are human beings.nbsp; If you're making decisions about your wedding "for the pictures", you need a reality check. Posted by Viczaesar Ok major reading fail I don't think I ever said she had any right to control her I gave her suggestions since obviously she wants their nails done and I also.stated that its ultimately on the bridesmaid.<strong>...however it is BS that no one notices details.</strong> I don't think a bride has the right to be a dictator but I would never advise someone to have professional photos taken of them selves and stand in front of a bunch of people <strong>without fine tuning those details because they show</strong>. Again its on her if she doesn't care that's her business but people definitely notice details so I just think its BS to say that they wont. its just something brides have yo accept and live with friends are more important than pictures.....God propel seriously misunderstand everything I type. Posted by ridedatbike[/QUOTE]
Tell me, in which of these photos: <a href="http://pinterest.com/_BeeForTheDay/wedding-party-photos/" rel="nofollow">http://pinterest.com/_BeeForTheDay/wedding-party-photos/</a> do you notice if a BP member has their nails done?
Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?
[QUOTE]Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated.
Posted by ridedatbike[/QUOTE]
No. The bride has no right to control her bridesmaid's fingernails, period. These are not props, people! These are human beings. If you're making decisions about your wedding "for the pictures", you need a reality check.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:Ok pps are right there are more important things in life, while as a friend I wouldn't down right complain about absolutely everything the bride wanted because thar is pretty childish you can't exactly force her to do anything. You shouldn't force her to do anything. My suggestion would be to work with her give her an over all concept and see what kind of input she has. I disagree that no one will.notice her nails because lets face it if they're like super gnarly people will, and also if she doesn't look well put together people will notice. I mean if she wants to look put together especially for pictures she should atleast file but that is completely on her. However that doesn't mean that you should force her to get the exact same.nails as everyone else. She could do French tips on her own nails and add a design to her own nails and no one will notice the possible difference in length. I mean you're paying and they wont be a biiiiitch to take off or anything and maybe she wont even need to to play her guitar. Bottom.line work with her, treat her as you would want to be treated.Posted by ridedatbikeNo.nbsp; The bride has no right to control her bridesmaid's fingernails, period.nbsp; These are not props, people!nbsp; These are human beings.nbsp; If you're making decisions about your wedding "for the pictures", you need a reality check. Posted by Viczaesar Ok major reading fail I don't think I ever said she had any right to control her I gave her suggestions since obviously she wants their nails done and I also.stated that its ultimately on the bridesmaid.<strong>...however it is BS that no one notices details.</strong> I don't think a bride has the right to be a dictator but I would never advise someone to have professional photos taken of them selves and stand in front of a bunch of people <strong>without fine tuning those details because they show</strong>. Again its on her if she doesn't care that's her business but people definitely notice details so I just think its BS to say that they wont. its just something brides have yo accept and live with friends are more important than pictures.....God propel seriously misunderstand everything I type.
Posted by ridedatbike[/QUOTE]
Tell me, in which of these photos: <a href="http://pinterest.com/_BeeForTheDay/wedding-party-photos/" rel="nofollow">http://pinterest.com/_BeeForTheDay/wedding-party-photos/</a> do you notice if a BP member has their nails done?
No one will notice if she has some callouses.
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