I know it's still a ways away, but my friends and future bridesmaids are already talking bachelorette party ideas and a few of them have talked about Vegas. The "I want Vegas" and "I've always wanted to go to/ do a bachelorette party in Vegas" have already been thrown around and said. The problem is, I know it's what they want to do but it's not me at all. A night out, being surrounded by friends and having drinks is fine and sounds fun, but I really don't want it to be in Vegas. I know that it's their party that they are planning, but how do I suggest nicely that a Vegas party is far from who I am or what I would like?