My bday is coming up 4/10, my best guy friend's is 4/12, and his gf who I'm also friend's with is 4/13. In college we always threw big get togethers to celebrate. At one point in time I dated his cousin for only 3 months---this was 2 years ago. His bday happens to be 4/11. Keeping up with tradition we still continue to have these get-togethers a bar. I moved 2 hours away a few months after we broke up and wasn't able to attend last year's bday festivities. I just found out today that his cousin/my ex asked specifially that I not be invited to this years because it is "akward". I just think this is riduculous!! I am engaged now, would be attending with my FI, and these are all my friends too. Yes I don't get to see them as often since moving away, but some are still invited to my wedding. We dated for a speck of time and he broke up with me via Facebook to get back together with an ex and that was that...Ugh just need to vent!!!