My wedding is July 13th. My MOH and mother are co-hosting a shower for me (and MOH is throwing a bachelorette party later that night). My MOH is going to be out of the country for a job from the end of May until a week before the wedding. Obviously I didn't want the shower to be that close to the wedding, so we decided (I say "we" because I had to input when I would be able to get off work) on May 18. This is over two months before the wedding. Is this too early?