I need some advice, desperately.
I have 2 weddings next year to go to on the same day. I am MOH in one and my husband is Groomsman in the other. We both do not want to be seperate on the day.
Here's the story:
I was asked to be MOH over a year ago, but they only booked their venue and date today.
My husband was asked to be a groomsman 2 weeks ago, and they booked their venue and date 1 month ago.
Now we spend way more time with my husbands wedding couple. We see them every 2 weeks, and the groom was a groomsman for us, and his future wife helped us out hugely for our wedding last year.
I only see my friend every 2 months or so and she couldn't make it to my wedding.
I am trying to figure out if we should stay split for the day or choose 1 wedding to attend?
Do I attend the wedding that had their day booked first and helped our wedding, or do we go to the wedding that asked me first?
I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but I'm so torn
Thank you for your thoughts