so the wench that made me mad at work gave me my space and I guess word around the office is I snapped so ppl that i normally dont deal with are kind of sort of being nice.
and cousin called me today while she was at work ( umm she is suppose to be educating people's children) but she ask if i was free.. so i pick up the phone.. she calls to ask how much is it per person and to let me know she would be paying for herself adn her adult kids.. oh yea as well as the side chick girlfriend
.. then she says she wanted to help any way she can financially... i said no its ok i just want you to have a good time not worry about money ( plus i knew if she gives money she would want some kind of say so..) then the kicker
.. she ask is her best friend and her daughter on the list? becuase if not they can pay for them selves.....i told her i dont know if I can accomodate all of those extra people... so then i hang up the phone and call my dad and FMIL. and both of them said NO.. you need to shut it down we cant have all these extra people EVEN IF they "say" they are going to pay for themselves..
so the extra people total is:
the lonely friend that misses the family that wants to come
the cousins' best friend and her daughter
adn teh side chick/ main chick girlfriend
and all these people need to be cut...
sigh...