I won't receive my invitations until May and they won't go out until June and ALREADY I've been "persuaded" into adding someone onto the invite list that I had no plans on inviting. 
It wasn't that I didn't want the person to come but I really wanted only family members and close family friends but this person is a lot of fun and we get along great at workout classes. She's been hinting, no telling me, that she is expecting an invite several times now.   So finally I get a text last night from her again about her invite.  Finallly I just asked for her address.  I guess she's getting an invite. 
WUSSSYY!!!   I can't even tell The Dude what happened.  
                
Love is the ultimate superpower.   
It can make you weak and strong simultaneously.