I am so frustrated...my FMIL has told me she was going to take care of several things (the flower girl's outfit since it's her neice, the RD, etc.) Throughout the whole wedding planning process she has failed to get things done when they need to be done; I had to nag her about 50 times to get 3 addresses of her family members, among many other things. So, to say I don't trust her to get anything done is an understatement. She is responsible for the RD (as we've discussed since the beginning). Of course she hasn't done anything that she needs to, so it's falling on my fiance. I feel terrible because it's not his problem to deal with. And he's asking me who is going to set it up, etc. Quite honestly, it's not my problem who is setting it up. I've found people to set up our wedding of 250+ people...if they can't find someone to set up tables and chairs at a local community cabin, I don't know what to do. I am not trying to be a bridezilla about all of this, but I told my FMIL since the beginning, the RD can be super simple (we are having qdoba catered). If she can't figure out how to do that, I want to throw in the towel. End Vent.