We are planning on having a surprise wedding (for our guests) but was wondering if there was an established etiquette for it or if we just have to make it up as we go along?
Thanks
Edit - Yes me and FI are getting married. We dont want a 'thing' but FI wants people there. We are currently completely gutting a house and redoing it all so FI thought that as we have already planned to throw a big party (after the last 2 years) as a house warming and we were also going to make it a 30th birthday party for FI so thought why don't we just also do a wedding at the same time.