My wedding is October 4. It was always well known that FSIL and my sister would be my BMs, so as soon as I got engaged they knew (and accepted) being in my BP. I asked my oldest friend a few months later and she said yes. I'm now debating whether it's too late to ask my other really good friend - I consider her my best friend. I didn't ask her when I asked my other friend because we weren't quite that close. We were friends, but not really super close friends. I asked her to be a reader awhile back and she said she's think about it (a little stage fright) but would love to if she could. She hasn't brought it up again and neither have I.
I wanted to give all the background information there so you lovely ladies could have some more to go on. At this point would it be offensive to ask her to be in my BP? I really don't want to offend. I wouldn't be offended, but different people think differently so I wanted to get some more opinions. Would you be offended to be asked to be a BM this late in the game?
CN: I've had a 1.5 year long engagement. FSIL and sister were asked to be BMs from day 1. Childhood friend was asked a few months later (3 or 4 I think). Is it too late to ask now-
BFF yo be a BM for an October wedding? She was not asked earlier because we are not that close until a little while ago.