Ok So let me just fill you in on a few things...
We were married 9/22/12
We had originally booked a photographer who screwed us over. So when we were in search for photographers, we were really in need of someone who would work with us on payments, due to the money we lost from the 1st photographer. Our photobooth company automatically set up a payment plan with us and we were looking for a similar situation.
We found a guy, who not only offered us photography services but dj services as well. When I asked about a payment plan, he was more then willing. He said he hadn't done it before but he would surely do it, no problem! So we signed the contract, paid the depsoit, done deal.
So since the wedding I've been thinking more and more about how I dont really know what he took pictures of, and I've been thinking more and more that I'm just not going to be happy once I see all these pictures. But I keep making my payments as promised.
So a few days ago I sent him an email and asked him, if he would be willing to email me a picture of the groom and his mom. I wanted to frame it for her for Mothers Day/Birthday as a suprise. I know the deal was no pictures unitl the balance is paid in full but Im just asking for 1 picture.
So He emails back and says sure no problem he will look through them and see what hes got. (I had mentioned 1 I remember them taking in front of a waterfall at the venue)
So today he messages me and says, he has no pictures of just the Groom and his mom. There are ones in front of the waterfall with mom dad and groom, and also ones with me, groom, mom and dad but none just groom and mom.
Excuse me?! This isn't like I'm talking about the Groom and his 3rd couisn. This is the Groom and his mom, the woman who raised him. and you didn't take a picture of them?!
(side note: his dad left when he was 2 and just came sort of back into the picture a year before the wedding, needless to say he was never there for my husband and my husband really doesn't know him, nor consider him a father, he only even took the picture to keep the peace with his mom)
I am absolutely heart broken at this for both my hubby and mother in law. and I am so mad at our photographer. On top of this, we had 2 photographers, and netither of them were with me when I was getting ready so I know I have no putting my dress on pictures etc. Also, we just had Maid of Honor and Best Man, which were each our best freinds, I do not remember any pictures being taken of me and my maid of honor. Also, my mom is passed away and so her sister, my aunt has been there for me like a mom, including through all the wedding plans. I dont remember a picture being taken of us either.
UGH!! I want to scream and cry!!!