Thanks again for the responses to my previous post:
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_gift-etiquette-for-post-marriage-wedding
I have a follow-up question. We're spending time with the couple this weekend and will be giving our congratulations and gift for their recent marriage. So far, I've been able to avoid discussing what they are calling their "real wedding," which is taking place in a few months. I doubt that will last, though, since it always comes up when we talk with them for very long.
What should I call this event when they bring it up? I don't think that mirroring their use of "wedding" is appropriate since that already happened. Is that actually appropriate, or is there a better term that I can use in polite conversation with them? Any thoughts?