So, FI and I were talking about this last night. He's getting all the men in the wedding party -- his three GM, my father, my brother (who's an usher and playing the processional song) -- growlers from a local brewery with locally brewed beer. (I think, but I'm not totally sure, that he's doing different beers for different people, based on their beer preferences). He's also having the growlers etched with their names.
I am already giving my BMs jewelry to wear in the wedding -- which obviously doesn't count as a gift to them, since I'm providing it to them to wear in the wedding -- but in light of that, I kind of don't want to give them MORE jewelry as a real gift. Does that make sense? I'm also thinking that, since they're all so different, I want to get them each something individualized and personal, rather than a lump "BM gift."
I'd love to hear what you all have done or will do or have had done for you.
I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'