I realize that anyone 18+ recieves their own invite. I'm feeling a little conflicted about my brother though. My wedding will be at the end of October so we plan on sending invites in Early-mid August. The oldest of my brothers will be turning 18 that July and will still be living at home. I know he should get his own invite but I feel awkward it about because my other brother is only slightly younger than he is and I don't want him to feel like the older brother is getting special treatment. Should I just also give him his own invite or wait to explain it when they ask, which they will.
If split the 1st invite would be:
Dad & Stepmom
Middle Brother and Youngest Brother(who will be 4 so I'm not concered about him)
2nd Invite:
Oldest Brother
My family is very laid back, and self proclaimed rednecks, so they don't care about ettiqutte, but I do.
TL;DR My oldest brother will get his own invite, but should the middle brother(17) also get one so as not to feel alienated and clumped in with the rest of the family?
Any and all advice is appreciated greatly.