I am hoping I can get some advice on how you all have handled the stepmother situation in your weddings.
Basic back story for me, my father's wife has been in my life for about 20 years. Up until very recently (like within the last year or so) we have not gotten along at all. I would not consider her a parent or even a person that had a hand raising me. She was just kind of there. Now, with our relationship friendlier than it has ever been, I do not know how to include her in my wedding. Is she just a glorified guest, or part of the wedding?
How have you all handled it with your famlies/weddings?