UPDATE IN COMMENTS
I am having a girls night with the younger crowd after my bridal shower Saturday. My friend is 22 and still chooses to not drive. Fine. But that mean it falls on her friends to pick her up and drive her home every time we want to do something. Unfortunately her husband does not agree with her going and wont give her a ride to the girls night. She is asking me for one but I don't want to make the drive out there on the day of my shower nor do I want to be responsible for getting her home (she hasn't decided if she is staying at the hotel with us.) She is now telling me I am being selfish.
Should I suck it up and make the trip out and risk having to leave my girls night to bring her home. (about 30 mins round trip) or should I have my first Bridezilla moment and tell her she needs to figure it out and that this is a day for me to have fun not to worry about these things.
I need advice. I always get sucked into this stuff but I really don't want to this time.