So, this is my second kick at the can - i'm 45, and a burlesque performer. My fiance (his first marriage) is 32, and a competitive yoyoer.
Our ceremony will be the finale of a short cabaret show featuring performances by friends and family - including the groom's brother plying guitar as I sing, a classic burlesque fan dance, a magician, yoyo, and all hosted by a dear friend of mine who is a fantastic drag queen. The groom's cousin will accompany my entrance on the violin.
The ceremony itself will be a traditional celtic handfasting. Then the recessional, straight into toasts and cake cutting, then dance the night away. (the food part of the reception is actually going to be BEFORE the ceremony)
Oh, and the whole thing is being held in a fabulous venue that looks like a 1920's supper club - with a stage and booths, all done up in red, black, and silver.
My mother is rolling her eyes, but the groom's mom loves the idea and so do the wedding party. I think it will make for a fun and very memorable evening.