so I'm such a slacker, I just started the seating chart tonight...and I am already fed up!! I have about 75 guests who have RSVP'd so far, and have to fit them at 8 ten-person tables. This should work, right? RIGHT?!!? I wish it were that easy!! Unfortunately, FI's family is full of feuding cousins and aunts who need to be separated, so I can't just have ONE "FI's extended family" table, I have to divide it into THREE. which means I have to separate others who should probably sit together! I would just add another table and keep them together, but there isn't enough space in the room, and I only rented enough tables for 80 guests. Ugh!! I didn't realize this was going to be such a nightmare. I am thinking I will probably just seat at least two of the feuding families at the same table and hope that they can be grown up enough to make is through one meal. thanks for letting me vent!! anyone else finding this to be the most terrible task so far?