Dilemma

Re: Dilemma

• TKzilla member

  

  June 2013

  Starfish320 said:

  I have another dilemma, well not really dilemma, but more just like potential awkwardness. I'm sure you ladies will have some sarcastic comments like get over yourself, etc. Well I will put it out there anyway.  The hubby and I have an upcoming wedding to attend this summer.The groom used to fight with his ex-fiance over me. Nothing ever happened between us, but I think she was just concerned that he was interested. This could have been a good sign they weren't right for each other and  they've since broken up. Now obviously he's getting remarried. I have hooked up with the best man at this wedding, but that was ages ago and I am not really very concerned about that since we've been friends after that. I just think it's weird that I am now married to the other groomsman. I don't know if any of this really matters since everyone's moved on with their lives and such...but I am still concerned about any potential awkwardness. Thoughts on how I can get through this? 

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• Starfish320 member

  

  June 2013

  LOL, yes!!!

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• s-aries8990 member

  

  June 2013

  Unless you make it awkward, it won't be awkward.
  

   

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• Starfish320 member

  

  June 2013

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• Starfish320 member

  

  June 2013 edited June 2013

  J/K. I would prefer not to disclose this information 

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• misshart00 member

  

  June 2013

  I thought you said 27ish in the other thread. Anyway, just don't make it awkward. Smile. Be polite. And then move on with life.

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• Starfish320 member

  

  June 2013

  Yes, I am joking, and I don't think I have ever given out my age on here. I don't see the point. I'll leave it to your imagination. 

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• TKzilla member

  

  June 2013

  Why would you not want to disclose your age?

  
  

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• AddieCake member

  

  June 2013

  Offer him Milk Duds. 

  What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14

  

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• wittykitty14 member

  

  June 2013 edited June 2013

  You're overthinking this a bit.  You're an adult (I think, lol), so this shouldn't be an issue.  As long as you're not dwelling on it in your head or bring it up, there won't be any awkwardness.

  ETA: @CourtaniaLynn-I really wish I could love your first comment more than once

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• misshart00 member

  

  June 2013

  I'm going to say 19.

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• TKzilla member

  

  June 2013

  Thanks @wittykitty14  

  
  

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• harper0813 member

  

  June 2013

  Solution: don't be awkward

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• RamonaFlowers member

  

  June 2013 edited June 2013

  I'm sure the groom and the guy you macked it with are too disgusted over the inferior background of your getting ready photos to ever possibly see you in "that way" ever again.

  
  

  *I felt sorry for my husband before I met him. Take a number.*
  

  
  

  
  

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• MoonlightSilver member

  

  June 2013

  Unless you're still in high school, none of this matters.

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• NYCBruin member

  

  June 2013 edited June 2013

  Unless you plan on walking up to the best man and saying, "Remember how we used to bang, those were some good times, maybe you can teach my husband how to do that thing you used to do" it's not going to be awkward.

  
  

  This isn't an awkward situation unless you make it an awkward situation or are looking for drama.

  Don't worry guys, I have the Wedding Police AND the Whambulance on speed dial!

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• southernbelle0915 mod

  

  June 2013

  If you truly want advice on how "you" can get through this: don't worry about it or address it. If everyone acts like adults this is a non-issue. If they don't and you are uncomfortable, you leave the wedding.

  
  

  Nothing about this is complicated unless you make it complicated. 

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• misshart00 member

  

  June 2013

  Does your husband know you slept with the best man? Is that where you're afraid it'll get awkward?

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• AddieCake member

  

  June 2013 edited June 2013

  Maybe he won't remember you and it'll be a non issue. ETA: I'm also not sure what the groom fighting with his ex about you has to do with this, unless you're just trying to paint us a picture of how desireable you are.

  What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14

  

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• s-aries8990 member

  

  June 2013

  AddieL73 said:

  Offer him YOUR Milk Duds. 

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• PrettyGirlLost member

  

  June 2013

  These are 1st world problems.
  
  You guys are all friends, right? So just act normally and treat everyone as you normally would in a social setting. . .unless that means sleeping with ppl in the wedding party again. Don't do that, lol.

  
  "Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
  
  

  
  

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• NYCBruin member

  

  June 2013

  AddieL73 said:

  Maybe he won't remember you and it'll be a non issue. ETA: I'm also not sure what the groom fighting with his ex about you has to do with this, unless you're just trying to paint us a picture of how desireable you are.

  Because she's worried the groom will pull a Ross and say her name during the vows.  At which point the best man, the groom, and her husband will have a duel to the death.  Duh.

  Don't worry guys, I have the Wedding Police AND the Whambulance on speed dial!

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• AddieCake member

  

  June 2013

  s-aries8990 said:

  AddieL73 said:

  Offer him YOUR Milk Duds. 

  FTFY
  
  

  I'm not sure that needed fixing, but ok. It doesn't matter if they are hers or not. 

  
  

  
  

  What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14

  

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• MuppetFan member

  

  June 2013

  I suggest hooking up with a bridesmaid to make your next post more interesting and to make your next wedding more awkward.
  

    
  You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.
  
  

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• Dreamergirl8812 member

  

  June 2013

  

  
  
  
  

  
  
  
  
  

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• RamonaFlowers member

  

  June 2013

  Guys, this can't be a muddy troll. It just can't be. I still haven't gotten over the girl that ran off to be with her FFIL right before the wedding and then never came back with a follow up.
  
  Yes, Linger and Stage, I'm holding the torch like the Statue of Liberty for that chick until I die.
  

  
  

  *I felt sorry for my husband before I met him. Take a number.*
  

  
  

  
  

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• sdg2502 member

  

  June 2013

  So many posts to love in this thread.
  
  Advice? Act like a normal human being and everything will be cool. Although if I'm honest, I'm finding it hard not to fall in love with you myself. I would like to officially announce my desire to run away with you. We can have mermaid themed engagements photos and get married in space. It will be glorious.

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• AJuliaNJ member

  

  June 2013

  If the best man and groom were able to move on or at least hold it in through your wedding planning and eventual wedding, I'm sure they are not going to go BSC now because they see you at someone else's wedding.

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• HobokensFury member

  

  June 2013

  The best man at my cousin's wedding was her ex fiance. People get over these things.
  

   
   

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• misssunshine17 member

  

  June 2013

  @ramonaflowers, link!?

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