I've been trying to read alot of the threads around here, hoping to get some confidence about dress shopping...I'm still dreading it. I'm sure the cause is my everyday lack of self-esteem but I KNOW alot of my anxiety is because the one time I went dress shopping to try and see what style even to search for, I took my mom. I felt like it would be the best experience with her...it wasn't!! All she did was point out every flaw about me in every dress I put on. It's either my arms are too big and need to be covered, or I have back fat that we need to find a way to cover up, or it shows my other problem areas.Nothing I tried on was right and I actually left the bridal shop in tears, which my mom couldn't understand. She thinks she is helping me by pointing these things out.
It's because of this that I'm not sure I will find a dress, no matter who I take with me. I'm currently a size 24/26 and have started a weight loss program that has been successful for many other people I know, but for me its not working at all! Maybe its the stress?? I do have about 6 months before I have to purchase my dress...
Who did you take with you? Did you take those who were most supportive? My sister made the best statement to me that I try to keep remembering..."It's not like people are expecting you to suddenly be skinny when you wear a wedding dress. You are who you are! People know what size you are and love you for it, their love isn't going to change if they see your arms."