My fiance` and I already live together, we have pots and pans, toasters, crock pots... all the stuff that you pretty much register for.. we would like to have guests give us money that we can use toward the honeymoon to lighten the stress of the wedding budget a little. We have money saved, but he is worried that we won't have enough and will have to cut some activities that we talked about out of the honeymoon. So how do you go about telling guests that you'd prefer money gifts instead of a bunch of household gifts that we don't need?