I have Arthritis that has caused my hands to swell so my rings dont fit any more. I want to put them in a safety deposit box so that when our baby boy grows up he can use the diamonds for his future wife thought it was a nice way to make a family heirloom. Any way my husband wants to buy me a new set I'm not a huge fan of diamonds because of their crazy mark up so I was looking at stones like White Topaz or White Sapphire because I want to keep a more traditional look. Are there other diamond looking stones I am missing? Secondly what jeweler would you suggest?