Just looking for some feedback re: non bridesmaids. I am having my sister, 2 sister inlaws and one close friend in our bridal party. I have 2 other friends I'd love to have in the party but we want to keep size down and mainly for girls -their feelings unhurt~ 2 of these girls I want to have do a reading together and 2 other friends I would like to include somehow, without having them feel like they are doing a 'chore'. I was thinking of having programs and seeing if the other 2 girls would want to greet guests and hand them out before cermony. I also thought of giving these 4 non bridesmaids bouteniere- to aknowledge their importance to me. Thoughts? I don't want to do the honorary route so I thought asking them to do certain things to be a part of our day would be more meaningful. If we go the route of 2 doing a reading and 2 handing out programs- do they all need to be included in the rehearsal, or just the 2 doing the reading ? Thanks in adavance.
