Okay, this is a tricky one..well for me anyway. I have gotten advice from family, but I am trying to get an unbiased view.
I work at a small, private preschool. There is me, plus seven other employees. I am good friends with most, so we have decided to invite everyone to avoid hurt feelings. Then, things started to get tense.
One of my co workers has a son in my class. Some things happened (very personal) and legal action had to be taken against her boyfriend. In the end, he was cleared and it was found that some of the things her son was saying was out of context. Her and I are still close, and she understands tha I was required by law to make the decisions I made. Her boyfriend is not okay with it. He has yelled at me, gotten in my face, and even shoved into me when I was standing in his way. He is no longer allowed to come onto the premises. And honestly, I am scared of him.
Now obviously, I know that when inviting guests to your wedding you should always invite their significant other. I do not feel like it would be safe for me to allow him to come to my wedding. I also do not have the option of not inviting her, because she would be the only co worker not invited.
Any thoughts?